[G&S]: Pride with us! Fri: FemFlirt / Next Fri: Dark DecaDance / Next Sat: Renegade Pride & afterparty

 
From: "Gemini & Scorpio" <gs@PROTECTED>
Subject: [G&S]: Pride with us! Fri: FemFlirt / Next Fri: Dark DecaDance / Next Sat: Renegade Pride & afterparty
Date: June 18th 2024

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Hello lovelies,


It may seem quiet in G&S land, but in case you don't know: our sister community, the all-gender all-orientation sx-positive House of Scorpio, does 5-7 events each month. Pride especially is a busy time for HoS, so we wanted to share some of what happens with our G&S peeps. HoS is membership-based, but none of the events below require membership. If you do sign up, you get benefits from discounts to exclusive event access.

In fact, HoS is doing a big membership drive this month, with extra perks for those who sign up in June: stay with us a while, and get your 6th month (Nov) FREE, plus $15 tickets to all classes and FREE movie nights every month until then, regardless of your member level.

HoS upcoming events (find full calendar on the HoS site); full details below:

- This Fri 6.21 - FemFlirt - Bring your fem & NB friends for an intimate social and makeout party: we welcome all, from curious to gold star, to our safe, sexy flirting space. No more wondering if that cute girl is just being nice or is actually interested!

- Next Fri 6.28 - Dark DecaDance - queer-forward goth party - We've got two special guests for you this month: Defcon's own resident DJ Stalagmike + a short live set by queer musician Max Fractal (FKA Kim Boekbinder). For Dark Decadence, Max Fractal will bring deep beats for dark places. DDD happens every fourth Friday of the month.

- Next Sat 6.29 - Renegade Pride - This year's blowout features a special short set by queer musician Max Fractal (FKA Kim Boekbinder). For Renegade Pride, Max Fractal will illuminate the night with the bright sounds of queer utopian futures. Special DJ guest: our brilliant HoS regular Illexxandra. There's also a very special afterparty (also listed below), but you need to be an HoS member to get in on that.

- Thur 7.5 - Taste The Rainbow - all-gender all-orientation mixer - Curious about HoS in general? This monthly social is the place to start.


Events created by other producers and happening at the G&S Loft:

- Thur 6.20 - Dance at Dusk Fusion Dance - https://www.facebook.com/events/2064743757239224

- Sun 6.23 - Brooklyn Swings' Sunday Social with live hot jazz, mini lesson and dancing. Last nigh with live band! - http://www.brooklynswings.com/sunday-swing.html

- Sun 6.30 - Brooklyn Swings' Sunday Social with DJ, mini lesson and dancing. Last night of the series! - http://www.brooklynswings.com/sunday-swing.html

 

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FRI 6.21: LGBTQ+ PARTY
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House of Scorpio
presents

FemFlirt: fem & non-binary mixer & makeout party

Friday, June 21, 9pm-10pm intros and social games / 10pm-2am party, 21+ (25+ suggested)
$25 non-members / $0-20 depending on HoS membership level
All tickets $15-25 include a FREE drink
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)

Official info & house rules: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/events.html
Memberships & tix: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/membership.html (log in to buy)

FB: https://www.facebook.com/events/1429801530984366
FL: https://fetlife.com/events/1521294
PL: https://plra.io/m/femflirt-queer-flirting-class-mixer-makeout-p-45
IG: @houseof_scorpio @gemini_scorpio #houseofscorpio

It's been a common refrain that it's harder for women to flirt with each other, as they frequently can't tell how much flirting may be ok, who's straight and who's open, and whether a connection they may be feeling is a friendly one or one with potential chemistry to explore. And, when cis & hetero presenting, they are sometimes made to feel too straight for gay spaces, and invisible or too queer in mixed environments. The same frequently holds for GNC/NB folks, too.

This event is a small step towards diminishing pan, queer and gay femme/NB invisibility, enabling and encouraging those folks to connect romantically and physically to others like them, wherever they fall on the gender presentation spectrum. We hope to be a place of empowerment and support for your exploration, even if you're just starting out or are unsure about your orientation. Explore and push your boundaries in a safe space, while enjoying our lush intimate Loft and delicious cocktails.

We will start the event with social games and introductions to make everyone feel welcome. As the night progresses, we go from mixer to makeouts, with Spin The Bottle and other sexier games.

Dress code: dress in whatever makes you feel sexy, however feminine or masculine you feel. We won't enforce the dress code as strictly as at Lip Service, but we respectfully ask for no casual attire. You're coming to flirt!

Who can attend: self-identifying women and GNC/NB humans who want to connect with other women and GNC/NB humans. While HoS events are usually more pan-gendered and pan-sexual, we're going to keep this one as a safe space without cis men. Important: HoS is a TERF-free zone! Trans women are women, and you're always welcome here.

HoS rules: HoS membership not required; dress code, PAL or prior approval not required; Code of Conduct always applies; no photos except in the designated front area.

COVID safety: HoS requires proof of vaccination on file; masks encouraged; two hospital grade UV air purifiers will cycle the air.


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6.28: MIXER & DANCE PARTY
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Gemini & Scorpio and House of Scorpio

present

Dark DecaDance

Fri June 28*, 10pm-4am, 21+ (25+ suggested)
For existing and prospective HoS members**; members: $0-20 / non-members: $15 adv, $20 door
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)

G&S: http://www.geminiandscorpio.com/events.html
HoS: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/events.html
Tix: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/membership.html (log in for discounts)

FB: https://www.facebook.com/events/991602732485217
FL: https://fetlife.com/events/1529881
PL: https://plra.io/m/dark-decadance-goth-dance-and-kink-play-party-in-lg-54
Social media: @houseof_scorpio [producer] @gemini_scorpio [venue] #darkdecadance #houseofscorpio

DDD is a queer-forward kink-friendly goth dance celebration, inviting all participants to let go, dance and play in our luscious private loft. We embrace all genders and sexualities and levels of darkness. Consent and polite party behavior strictly enforced.

On decks:

Resident DJ Shiver has been bringing the best of darkwave, goth, industrial, and post-punk sounds since 2015. Having spun at Femme Fest LA, Defcon NYC, and co-founding clubs Dolce Vita and Physical Ruins, she continues to blend both beloved classics and the best of new dark music. She also runs Wire Trap music magazine featuring the best new darkwave and post-punk music and events.

DJ Stalagmike began his career as resident DJ at NYC's legendary club Albion before gaining a residency at Asylum Guild in the basement of the iconic Pyramid Club NYC. He is the founder of Defcon, NYC's longest-running Industrial party, now in its 15th year. DJ Stalagmike has spun countless sets at northeast's top Goth/Industrial clubs, many legendary EBM and Industrial concerts, and even a few festivals such as Kinetik, Cold Waves and Darkforce.

Special live set:

Max Fractal (fka Kim Boekbinder) is exciting and terrifying - mixing sonic textures and electronic melodies to create a sound they call Queer Darkwave. It's dance music with a lot of feelings. It's feelings music with a beat. It's the weightlessness of seeing your crush across the room. Exciting. And terrifying. For Dark Decadence, Max Fractal will bring deep beats for dark places. IG: @maxfractal  / https://www.maximumfractal.com/

Dress code: goth, fetish, romantic, vampire, dark Lolita, neo-Victorian, steampunk, ninja warrior. Effort required / no casual wear.

*Dark DecaDance happens on every fourth Friday of the month.

**HoS rules: HoS membership, PAL and prior approval not required. Dress Code required; Code of Conduct always applies; no photos except in the designated front area.

COVID safety: masks encouraged; two hospital grade UV air purifiers cycle the air.


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6.29: MIXER & DANCE PARTY
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Gemini & Scorpio + House of Scorpio present

Renegade Pride

Sat, June 29, 9pm-1am, $10-35* adv / $20 door
HoS monthly member discounts: $0-$20 / Members-only afterparty 1am-4am
Earlybird ticket special: $10 until Wed 6.19
Gemini and Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible), Gowanus, BK

G&S: http://www.geminiandscorpio.com/events.html
HoS: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/events.html
Tix: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/membership.html (log in for discounts)

FB: https://www.facebook.com/events/1163942414952927
FL: https://fetlife.com/events/1531017
PL: https://plra.io/m/renegade-pride-62
IG: @gemini_scorpio @houseof_scorpio #geminiandscorpio #houseofscorpio #BKrenegadepride

Our annual dance party blowout, in our brand new loft party space: lights & smoke & lasers, booming bass, spinning disco ball, lots of dance floor, lots of couches, killer AC. Our fave DJ Illexxandra keeps your booty bouncing on the dance floor while go go, flow & pole acts keep up the vibes. Rainbow selfie photo booth to capture your looks.

Special live set: Max Fractal (fka Kim Boekbinder) is exciting and terrifying - mixing sonic textures and electronic melodies to create a sound they call Queer Darkwave. It's dance music with a lot of feelings. It's feelings music with a beat. It's the weightlessness of seeing your crush across the room. Exciting. And terrifying. For Renegade Pride, Max Fractal will illuminate the night with the bright sounds of queer utopian futures. IG: @maxfractal  / https://www.maximumfractal.com/

Dress code: your queerest self! Sparkly unicorns, leather daddies, LED aliens, fancy fairies, glitter glamour queens, sequin divas, kinky party monsters, neon rainbow bears...with sensible dancing shoes! This Pride is inclusive of all genders & expressions. As always with us, effort required / no entry otherwise...but we'll help you at door if you're under-dressed. Are you bringing LEWKS? Impress the door mistress and get in FREE.

COVID safety: Masks are welcome but not required, and are recommended for the dance floor if not keeping 6' apart. We're collecting contact info on all guests for contact tracing purposes in case of an infection.

*All tickets offer the same access to the event. Please buy at the highest price you can, to support artists, production and affordable tickets for everyone. For every patron ticket ($35) we add a low income ticket ($10).


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6.29 late-night: PLAY PARTY
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House of Scorpio
presents

Renegade Pride playful afterparty

Late-night Sat June 29/Sun June 30, 1am-4am (please arrive by 12:45am), 21+ (25+ suggested)
HoS members only*, $0-30 depending on membership level
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)

Official info & house rules: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/events.html
Approval & membership required for ticket purchase**: http://houseofscorpio.com/attend.html

FB: https://www.facebook.com/events/821371826598161

Closing out Pride month with a little playtime. Dance your butts off 9pm-1am at Renegade Pride, then give your butts something else to do 1am-4am.

All afterparty tickets include access to Renegade Pride. You must arrive before 12:45am / doors locked at 1am. No door sales. Afterparty tickets will only be visible in membership system if you're approved for our private events.

Dress code: as usual for Pride or our playful events. No casual attire; you will not be admitted.

*HoS rules: HoS membership, PAL & Dress Code required; approval required; Code of Conduct always applies; no photos except in the designated front area.

COVID safety: HoS requires proof of vaccination on file; masks encouraged; two hospital grade UV air purifiers will cycle the air.


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7.5: MIXER + HoS INTRO...START HERE!
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House of Scorpio
presents

Taste The Rainbow: sex-positive kinky poly LGBTQ+ mixer

Thur July 5*, 7pm-12am, 21+ (25+ suggested)
For existing & prospective HoS members; members: $0 / non-members: $10
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)
Official info & house rules: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/events.html
Memberships & tix: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/membership.html (log in for member tix)

FB: https://www.facebook.com/events/1460140244621945
FL: https://fetlife.com/events/1534449
PL: https://plra.io/m/taste-the-rainbow-sex-positive-kinky-poly-lgbtq-245
Socials: @gemini_scorpio #houseofscorpio

We get asked all the time how people can join HoS if they are shy, don't have like-minded friends, lack PALs for play parties, have no idea how this whole thing works, don't feel like jumping into sexy activity but want to connect to open-minded humans, etc. This party is the answer!

Calling all LGBTQIA+, poly, kink, swinger and other "alternative" dating/sex/gender-aligned humans and their allies. We're creating a protected and judgment-free space for connections, conversations, community, games and interactivity. This is the key HoS event open to non-members. Come meet us before you join!

For those of you new to it all: direct introductions to HoS members new and old; facilitated discussions on poly, kink and swinger lifestyles; icebreaker games to welcome you to our club.

For our regulars: a way to ease new friends into our scene; a chance to meet all the new faces you may want to kiss later; a visit with the community even if your PAL is not around.

For everyone: tabletop and social games, both risqué and plain fun; a charming host to make the introductions and explain all things HoS and sex-positive, and a cozy setting for conversations and future kisses. Our main icebreaker game, HoS Guest Bingo, runs from 7:30pm until we have a winner: get to know everyone in the room, and win a drink if you complete your bingo card.

Miss Scorpio is back hosting the mixer! Come ask her directly anything you want to know about this community. We've been building it for you for 10+ years, and hope to be here for 10+ more.

HoS rules: HoS membership, PAL and dress code not required; no prior approval required; Code of Conduct always applies; no photos except in the designated front area.

COVID safety: HoS requires proof of vaccination on file; masks encouraged; windows will be partially open for ventilation; two hospital grade UV air purifiers will cycle the air.

*Taste The Rainbow happens every first Thursday of the month except when a month starts on Friday (otherwise it would end up the night before Lip Service).

 


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