[G&S]: Fri: kissing party! / March: Burning Man happy hour, goth dance & more HoS events

 
From: "Gemini & Scorpio" <gs@PROTECTED>
Subject: [G&S]: Fri: kissing party! / March: Burning Man happy hour, goth dance & more HoS events
Date: March 10th 2026

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Hello lovelies,

What a gorgeous Mardi Gras, as always! So much love to the bands and the guests! G&S doesn't do as many big blowouts these days, so it's pure joy when we get to do what we do -- and you guys turn up in full finery and fill the place <3 Well post pics and video to Insta as they come in; some are already up - go see.

We've got a mixed bag of options for your March events, between us, House of Scorpio, and a guest Burning Man event. All details are below the summaries in date order. We hope to see you here again soon!


*** Upcoming G&S and guest events: ***

- Wed 3.25 - Burning Man Happy Hour ($0, open to all) - theme camp speed dating edition! If you're going to That Thing In The Desert, finding a camp to stay and build creativity with is one of the biggest decisions you get to make. Come meet local NYC theme camps and see if any of them might be a match for you. Also, Miss Scorpio will have her racks set up for festival-ready party outfits.

- Fri 3.27 - Dark DecaDance goth dance party ($0-20, open to all) - queer meets kink meets goth. Light play welcome, but mostly it's a social and dance party. Earlybird tickets are in effect until Friday!

*** Upcoming HoS events: ***

- This Fri 3.13 - Lip Service: pansexual makeout party ($0-25, members only) - A party where making out in dark corners is not just tolerated, but encouraged. Even if you're only playing within your closed circle, doing that without feeling like you're breaking the social contract feels pretty great. For you more adventurous folk, this is where the games get physical, too (Sexy Jenga! Spin the Bottle!). It's our signature event, and it's a ton of fun without a lot of pressure.

- Fri 4.3 - Taste The Rainbow: community social ($0-10, open to all) - The all-are-welcome monthly gathering to introduce members old and new to each other. We have table and icebreaker games to make the intros easier. As always, even $5 members can attend the event FREE.

- Sun 4.12 - Sinema Club: exploring gender & sexuality on screen ($0-10, open to all) - It's rare to see sexuality-oriented cinema be treated seriously, and we are here to change that. This month, we're returning to our Es-sin-tial Filmmakers series with one of the top classics of the 90s nouveau adult cinema (arguably even the one that started the trend!): Andrew Blake's "House of Dreams" (1991).

- Fri 4.17 - FemFlirt + MeetMarket ($0-10, open to all) - Want to meet more humans to kiss? Come flirt, at the one HoS party where you're allowed to shamelessly hit on other guests! Half the room is dedicated to a safe and encouraging space for F4F & NB flirting, and half the room is for all-gender flirting. The bar is a no-cruising social safe space: friendly chat only. Singles and dating non-singles of all genders and orientations welcome. Let's flirt! (We're still finding out whether Vonka is available to teach her Flirting for Femmes class.)

Cheers,

Gemini & Scorpio,
makers of themed costume events with live entertainment

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FRI 3.13: MAKEOUT PARTY
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House of Scorpio
presents

Lip Service: pansexual makeout party

Fri March 13*, 9pm-2am, 21+ (25+ suggested), HoS members only**
$0-25 depending on membership level
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)

Official info & house rules: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/events.html
Memberships & tix: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/membership.html (log in to buy)

FB: https://www.facebook.com/events/1566330561265101
FL: https://fetlife.com/events/2026/03/13/lip-service-pansexual-kissing-and-cocktails-party-wtcdyk
PL: https://plra.io/m/lip-service-pansexual-kissing-and-cocktails-party-478
Socials: @houseof_scorpio [producer] @gemini_scorpio [venue] #houseofscorpio

Bring your luscious lips (yours and your PAL's), and join us for lubricating libations and naughty games with sexy friends and intriguing strangers. Bring toys & games to share (blindfolds? rope? sexy dice?).

Feeling shy or wanting to meet new folks? Come early! Meet our founder, Miss Scorpio. Between 9-10:30pm, Miss S is there to introduce new members to old timers, explain how the whole HoS thing works, and generally make a delightful fuss over your presence.

Think of our makeout parties as R-rated community mixers -- a place to get to know your fellow kinksters, introduce a partner to a more playful lifestyle, test out the sparks you may have had with someone at Taste The Rainbow -- before attending the more naughty play parties. It's also a way for us to vet you in person for those parties...talk to us at the event.

Dress to be kissed: sexy and fun. Fetish attire, formalwear, lingerie, corsets, tutus and costumes always welcome...and we consider those unisex options (the more colorful and outrageous, the better). No casual or business; door person WILL turn you away -- see Code of Conduct page on our site for more details on the dress code.

*Lip Service happens on the second Friday of every month

**HoS rules: HoS membership, PAL & Dress Code required; no prior approval required; Code of Conduct always applies; no photos except in the designated front area.

Respiratory safety: masks welcome; two hospital grade UV air purifiers will cycle the air.


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WED 3.25: BURNING MAN SOCIAL
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Burning Man Happy Hour
presents

NYC Theme Camp Speed Dating - Find Your Theme Camp

When: March 25, 6-10pm
Where: Gemini and Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglas St, 3rd Fl (elevator)
What: Info, Social, Drinks & Apparel
FB: https://www.facebook.com/events/1623913678810608

Whether you're a seasoned Burner or new to the scene, if you're looking for a place to camp, and people to build creative interactivity with, this is the event for you!

We're connecting local NYC campers with local NYC Theme Camps. We have an expo format where burners can go around and talk to representatives of the camps, learn each others vibes, and maybe make that magical connection.

Signups for NYC Theme Camps: https://forms.gle/b6wpdvN8q5Pq6USAA

Miss Scorpio will have her secondhand statement fashion racks set up, if you're looking for desert-perfect un-gendered party wear options.


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FRI 3.27: DANCE PARTY
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Gemini & Scorpio and House of Scorpio
 
present:

Dark DecaDance - queer-forward kink-friendly goth dance party
 
Fri March 27*, 10pm-3am, 21+ (25+ suggested)
$10 adv until 3.13 / $15 adv or doors before 11pm / $20 otherwise
HoS monthly member discount: as low as $0 depending on level
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)
 
G&S: http://www.geminiandscorpio.com/events.html
HoS: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/events.html
Tix: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/membership.html (log in for HoS member discounts)

FB: https://www.facebook.com/events/25780342978304745
PL: https://plra.io/m/dark-decadance-queer-forward-kink-friendly-goth-d
FL: https://bit.ly/40rzMLx
IG: @houseof_scorpio [producer] @gemini_scorpio [venue] #houseofscorpio

DDD is a queer-forward kink-friendly goth dance celebration, inviting all participants to let go, dance and play in our luscious private loft. We embrace all genders and sexualities and levels of darkness.
 
On decks: resident DJ Shiver has been bringing the best of darkwave, goth, industrial, and post-punk sounds since 2015. Having spun at Femme Fest LA, Defcon NYC, and co-founding clubs Dolce Vita and Physical Ruins, she continues to blend both beloved classics and the best of new dark music. She also runs Wire Trap music magazine featuring the best new darkwave and post-punk music and events.

Light kink play welcome, but please note there is no dedicated dungeon setup or dedicated monitors. Consent and polite party behavior strictly enforced.

Dress code: goth, fetish, romantic, vampire, dark Lolita, neo-Victorian, steampunk, ninja warrior. Effort required / no casual wear.

Respiratory safety: masks always welcome; two hospital grade UV air purifiers cycle the air.

*Dark DecaDance happens on every fourth Friday of the month.


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FRI 4.3: MIXER & HoS INTRO
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House of Scorpio
presents

Taste The Rainbow: sex-positive poly/kinky/LGBTQ+ & allies mixer

Fri Apr 3, 7pm-12am, 21+ (25+ suggested)
For existing & prospective HoS members; members: $0 / non-members: $10
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)

Official info & house rules: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/events.html
Memberships & tix: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/membership.html (log in for member tix)

FB: https://www.facebook.com/events/953441960492930
FL: https://bit.ly/4svfwoi
PL: https://plra.io/m/taste-the-rainbow-sex-positive-polykinkylgbtq-35
Socials: @houseof_scorpio [producer] @gemini_scorpio [venue] #houseofscorpio

People always ask if can join HoS if they are shy, don't have like-minded friends, lack PALs for play parties, have no idea how this whole thing works, don't feel like jumping into sexy activity but want to connect to open-minded humans, etc etc. This party is the answer!

Calling all LGBTQIA+, poly, kink, ENM and other "alternative" dating/sex/gender-aligned humans and their allies. We're creating a protected and judgment-free space for connections, conversations, community, games and interactivity. This is the place to start if you've never been -- and the party is always FREE if you're already a member.

For those of you new to it all: a place to be comfortable in your gender or orientation identity, direct introductions to HoS members new and old; open discussions on varied lifestyles; icebreaker games to welcome you to our club.

For our regulars: a way to ease new friends into our scene; a chance to meet all the new faces you may want to kiss later; a visit with the community even if your PAL is not around.

For everyone: PG-13 tabletop and social games, a charming host to make the introductions and explain all things HoS and sex-positive, and a cozy setting for conversations and future kisses. Be on time! Our icebreaker game, HoS Guest Bingo, runs from 7:30pm until we have a winner: get to know everyone in the room, and win a drink if you're the first to complete your bingo card.

Current host: Miss Scorpio is back hosting the mixer. Come ask her directly anything you want to know about HoS. We've been building this community for you for 10+ years, and hope to be here for 10+ more.

HoS rules: HoS membership, PAL and dress code not required; no prior approval required; Code of Conduct always applies; no photos except in the designated front area.

Respiratory safety: masks welcome; two hospital grade UV air purifiers will cycle the air.

*Taste The Rainbow happens every first Friday of the month if our Loft is available; otherwise it moves to first Thursdays.


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SUN 4.12: MOVIE
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House of Scorpio
presents

Sinema Club Es-sin-tial Filmmakers: Andrew Blake's "House of Dreams" (1991)

Sun 4.12, 7-11:30pm, 21+ (25+ suggested)
For existing & prospective HoS members*; members: $0-10 / non-members: $10 + $2 fee
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)

Official info & house rules: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/events.html
Memberships & tix: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/membership.html (log in to buy)

FB:
FL:
PL:
IG: @houseof_scorpio [producer] @gemini_scorpio [venue] #houseofscorpio

The body's largest sex organ is the brain. Sinema Club stimulates yours with films that are explicitly erotic, homo-romantic, or gender-exploring -- and always thought-provoking. A rousing discussion follows; drinking is encouraged throughout, and mingling happens before, in breaks and after. Plus: free popcorn from our vintage cart. You can also order in from the many restaurants around, and make it dinner and a movie.

This month's feature: Andrew Blake's adult classic "House of Dreams" (1991)

An 80-min erotic fever dream, House of Dreams has no dialogue -- but plenty of gorgeous sets, dreamy fashion-style photography, music video-style editing, and a variety of sexual encounters. A unnamed woman (Zara Whites) finds herself exploring a house where every room conjures up visions of sex: straight, gay, solo, kink. House of Dreams took home 7 AVN Awards (including Best Film), making it director Andrew Blake's most honored movie to date. Andrew Blake is one of our Es-Sin-tial Filmmakers: sex columnist Violet Blue has called his films "a whole different genre of explicit erotic filmmaking," "luxuriously designed from nip tip to toe," and "stylish as hell." Released in 1991, this is the film that can be considered the trend-setter in the brief blip of gorgeously avant grade 90s adult cinema.

Sinema Club is curated and hosted by Phil Guie-Ng (@thatphilguymovies): an inquisitive, ardent longtime film critic who is dying to tell you about movies you haven't heard of yet. As a reviewer at the website Film-Forward, his self-appointed mission was covering documentaries and features about subjects who challenged conventional attitudes about gender, masculinity, and more. When Phil isn't writing about movies, you can find him in Brooklyn taking part in protests on behalf of basic human rights.

*HoS rules: HoS membership, dress code, PAL, prior approval not required; Code of Conduct always applies; no photos except in the designated front area.

Respiratory safety: HoS requires proof of COVID vaccination on file; masks encouraged; two hospital grade UV air purifiers will cycle the air.

 

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FRI 4.17: FLIRTING PARTY
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House of Scorpio
presents

Two flirting parties in one: FemFlirt + MeetMarket

Fri Apr 17, 9pm-1am (intros & social games 9-10pm), 21+ (25+ suggested)
For existing & prospective HoS members*; members: $0-10 / non-members: $10
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)

Official info & house rules: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/events.html
Memberships & tix: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/membership.html (log in to buy)

IG: @houseof_scorpio [producer] @gemini_scorpio [venue] #houseofscorpio

FB:
FL:
PL:

For those of you who always ask how to meet potential partners and play PALs, finally: two flirting parties in one. We'll divide our large space in two, and run the events simultaneously.

On the dance floor & stage - FemFlirt: fem & non-binary mixer & makeout party. In the lounge - MeetMarket: pansexual flirting party. In the bar - a neutral zone for everyone to take a break from flirting.

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For femmes & NB folks: FemFlirt

It's been a common refrain that it's harder for women/GNC/NB folks to flirt with each other, as they frequently can't tell how much flirting may be ok, who's straight and who's open, and whether a connection they may be feeling is a friendly one or one with potential chemistry to explore. And, when cis & hetero presenting, they are sometimes made to feel too straight for gay spaces, and invisible or too queer in mixed environments.

This event is a small step towards diminishing pan, queer and gay femme/NB invisibility, enabling and encouraging those folks to connect romantically and physically to others like them, wherever they fall on the gender presentation spectrum.

Who can attend: self-identifying women and GNC/NB humans who want to connect with other women and GNC/NB humans. No masc folks on this side of the room, please.

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For everyone: MeetMarket

We put our "no cruising" rule on hold and encourage all guests to shamelessly hit on each other. An all-gender, all-orientation flirting party to help you find a partner (or two). Our PAL rule is on hold as well: come alone or bring a stranger. Wondering where to meet up with your new app match? Bring them here. Invite all your single friends. Tell your mom.

Social games 9-10pm to help you connect with other guests.

Who can attend: humans of all genders who might want to flirt with and go on dates with other humans. Singles to the front, though of course we're a poly space, and dating couples are welcome as well.

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Dress code: dress in whatever makes you feel sexy. We won't enforce the dress code as strictly as at Lip Service, but we respectfully ask for sexy attire. You're coming to flirt!

*HoS rules: HoS membership, PAL or prior approval not required; sexy dress code encouraged, but you won't be turned away if not dressed to code; Code of Conduct always applies; no photos except in the designated front area.

COVID safety: HoS requires proof of vaccination on file; masks encouraged; two hospital grade UV air purifiers will cycle the air.

 


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