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Hello lovelies,
Last week of Pride is here, and we are excited to be GAYAF with you all. We also have two last minute bonus events at the Loft this week that are open to all, for a grand total of four party nights starting tomorrow. Eeep!
New this week: we joined Partiful! If you find it helpful to track your event invites there, you can now follow the Loft here: https://bit.ly/GSLoft_partiful and HoS here: https://bit.ly/HoS_partiful -- we're adding events as we speak. We're always looking for ways to make it easier for you to remember when things are happening and be able to invite friends along. Any other suggestions?
Lastly: we're hiring! We've been needing to expand our crew for a while, so if you've ever wanted to work in this bonkers industry, hit us up. What we need (experience required): speedy & social bartenders, barbacks / bussers / trash handlers, plus misc other event help, like door or (eventually) event & venue management. If you fill multiple roles, great! We love having a cross-trained team and being able to assign more gigs to core crew. Separately from those, we need a reliable & detail-oriented local cleaner just about every Monday. Every position is at least $25/hr.
*** Upcoming G&S and guest events: ***
- Tomorrow! Wed 6.24 - Burning Man Happy Hour (FREE, open to all) - a social gathering for local Burners that hops around various Burner-owned venues year-round. For this edition, you get to meet two Temple artists and hear about their experience getting huge projects off the ground and executed at the Burn.
- This Thur 6.25 - Jivamukti Yoga NY soft open & two-floor party (FREE, open to all) - we've been waiting for this! The 4th floor is finally occupied, and we are sooo psyched to have an additional space to party in. Come be the first to see the upstairs, and stay for a two-floor dance party.
- This Fri 6.26 - Dark DecaDance goth dance party ($0-20, open to all) - queer meets kink meets goth. Light play welcome, but mostly it's a social and dance party. Special guest DJ in from CA! Earlybird $10 tix are avail till this Fri 6.12 for House of Scorpio members & non-members.
*** Upcoming HoS events: ***
- This Sat 6.27 - New party launch! Kurious: kink munch and skillshare ($0-10, open to all) - A kinky social where you can chill with your fellow kinksters, practice your Bedroom Badass skills and meet our brand new teacher! Pro domme Viktoria Sway is joining HoS to lead a variety of classes, but first -- let's get to know each other and have a little playful Pride pre-party before we go into Countdown full play mode (that one only open to approved HoS members).
- Note date change! Thur 6.2 - Taste The Rainbow: community social ($0-10, open to all) - Pushing this one back a day, in case folks are traveling for the 4th. Come grab a dose of sex-positive femme- and queer-forward community like only NYC can provide before you go off into Americana land.
- Fri 7.10 - Lip Service: pansexual makeout party ($0-25, members only) - A party where making out in dark corners is not just tolerated, but encouraged. Even if you're only playing within your closed circle, doing that without feeling like you're breaking the social contract feels pretty great. For you more adventurous folk, this is where the games get physical, too (Sexy Jenga! Spin the Bottle!). It's our signature event, and it's a ton of fun without a lot of pressure.
- Sun 7.12 - Sinema Club: exploring gender & sexuality on screen ($0-10, open to all) - It's rare to see sexuality-oriented cinema be treated seriously, and we are here to change that. July pick: Russ Meyers' Beyond the Valley of the Dolls (1970). Phil is not here for this one, so we're just going to enjoy this notoriously wild and dirty ride without much deep discussion or special guests.
- Fri 7.17 - FemFlirt + MeetMarket ($0-20, members only) - Have you noticed how much all dating apps have started sucking? It's time to bring back IRL meetups for folks of all genders and orientations to find new play or dating partners. Calling all singles and dating non-singles for a flirting party two-fer: FemFlirt for femme & non-binary folks on one side of the room; MeetMarket for everyone else on the other. The bar is a neutral no-flirting zone. Tabletop and social games ease the process (come early).
Cheers,
Gemini & Scorpio,
makers of themed costume events with live entertainment
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WED 6.24: SOCIAL
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BMHH with visiting Valencia-based artist Miguel Arraiz García
& NYC-based artist Michael White
FB: https://www.facebook.com/events/2556838454773947
Gemini and Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglas Street, 3rd floor, Gowanus, BK
An evening exploring the art of inhabited sculpture, anchored by the designer of the Temple of the Deep — the 2025 Burning Man Temple — and a local practitioner whose work lives in the same tradition. We will learn more about the concepts --and realities -- of one of the most iconic annual installation placements on the Playa.
Wednesday June 24, 6pm-12am
7pm - artist presentation
Q&A after; mingling and general Burnery things throughout
Plus: a huge selection of BM-ready costumes & clothing from Miss Scorpio
AS ALWAYS ON A WEDNESDAY NIGHT COLLAB WITH HAPPY HOUR - ADMISSION IS FREE, no minimum purchase required, just lovely to support our host venue.
Michael White opens with a brief framing talk on Inhabited Sculpture as an emerging movement. A 2025 Burning Man Honoraria recipient for EyeToTheSky who has worked with multiple Temple teams, White will introduce the conceptual territory and set up the evening.
Miguel Arraiz García follows with the main event. A Spanish architect and artist based in Valencia, Miguel's background in Las Fallas — a festival rooted in the creation and burning of monumental structures — shaped his approach to ephemeral architecture and storytelling through space. As the first Spanish native to lead the Burning Man Temple project, he brings a genuinely global perspective. The Temple of the Deep drew inspiration from the Black Rock Desert landscape, exploring radical acceptance and the importance of fully experiencing emotions as part of the healing process — a space where feelings can be acknowledged without pressure to move through grief or transformation too quickly. Miguel will speak about the design, the build, and what it means to create a structure whose final act is its own burning.
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THUR 6.25: SOCIAL + DANCE PARTY
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Jivamukti Yoga NY Gowanus soft open + two-floor dance party
267 Douglass St, Brooklyn, NY
PF (best for updates): https://partiful.com/e/mx0sJcCjiyz5hUxeGQZ7
FB: https://www.facebook.com/events/1670358957356116
Jivamukti NY is expanding and reopening in Gowanus Brooklyn as a multidisciplinary institute! Please join us for a community welcome, blessing, and help us spread the word about what’s to come. The new warehouse space is partially finished, and we are already open with a growing preview schedule. Your ideas and feedback will help focus our Grand Opening in the fall.
Here’s our plan for the evening:
Yoga Intro 5-6p (please arrive a little early - signup link coming)
Intermission and setup 6-7p
Welcome 7-9p - Friends and Family Meet and Mingle 7p / Giving Tree setup with kids’ help 7:30p / Introductions and Blessing Circle 8p
Extended Dance Party 9p-12a - the party expands to the 3rd floor Gemini & Scorpio Loft for lounging, DJs & dancing (adults only in this space)
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FRI 6.26: DANCE PARTY
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Gemini & Scorpio and House of Scorpio
present:
Dark DecaDance - queer-forward kink-friendly goth dance party
Fri June 26*, 10pm-3am, 21+ (25+ suggested)
$10 adv until 6.12 / $15 adv or doors before 11pm / $20 otherwise
HoS monthly member discount: as low as $0 depending on level
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)
G&S: http://www.geminiandscorpio.com/events.html
HoS: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/events.html
Tix: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/membership.html (log in for discounts)
FB: https://www.facebook.com/events/1105792105117091
FL: https://bit.ly/3RHcTm9
PL: https://plra.io/m/dark-decadance-queer-forward-kink-friendly-goth-d-54
IG: @houseof_scorpio [producer] @gemini_scorpio [venue] #houseofscorpio
DDD is a queer-forward kink-friendly goth dance celebration, inviting all participants to let go, dance and play in our luscious private loft. We embrace all genders and sexualities and levels of darkness.
On decks: resident DJ Shiver has been bringing the best of darkwave, goth, industrial, and post-punk sounds since 2015. Having spun at Femme Fest LA, Defcon NYC, and co-founding clubs Dolce Vita and Physical Ruins, she continues to blend both beloved classics and the best of new dark music. She also runs Wire Trap music magazine featuring the best new darkwave and post-punk music and events.
Special guest DJ: Adrienne Scissorhands from Oakland, CA. Adrienne has been DJing since the early 2000’s, playing at clubs and festivals in multiple cities and countries, and running their own monthly party, Post-Mortem, since 2017. They have a passion for supporting and exposing current artists worldwide as well as playing old school bangers.
Light kink play welcome, but please note there is no dedicated dungeon setup or monitors. Consent and polite party behavior strictly enforced.
Dress code: goth, fetish, romantic, vampire, dark Lolita, neo-Victorian, steampunk, ninja warrior. Effort required / no casual wear.
Respiratory safety: masks always welcome; two hospital grade UV air purifiers cycle the air.
*Dark DecaDance happens on every fourth Friday of the month.
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SAT 6.27: SOCIAL
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House of Scorpio and Goddess Viktoria Sway present
New party launch! Kurious: kink munch and skillshare
Sat 6.27, 7-10:30pm, 21+ (25+ suggested), open to all*
(10pm-3am: Countdown pansexual play party, listed separately)
Members: $0-10 / non-members: $10 + $2 fee
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)
Official info: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/events.html
Memberships & tix: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/membership.html (log in for member tix)
Goddess Viktoria Sway: http://www.nycdominatrix.net
FB: https://www.facebook.com/events/1017282550647765
FL: https://bit.ly/4x34r0E
PL: https://plra.io/m/new-party-launch-kurious-where-the-kinky-find-co
PF: https://partiful.com/e/cy1HVbBXFYE24YcIL21J
IG: @houseof_scorpio [producer] @goddessviktoriasway [host] @gemini_scorpio [venue]
A brand new open-to-all social for both the kinky-curious and those deep in the lifestyle, led by HoS’ new Bedroom Badass class teacher Goddess Viktoria Sway. Kurious is here to share new ideas and approaches, let you ask the questions you’re not sure whom and how to ask, and connect you with people who get it, so you can build the kinky life you want. You’re welcome to bring toys to practice and explore in a low-pressure, friendly (and fully dressed) environment.
Each event includes open social time, a brief "knowledge teaser" demo or sneak peek of HoS classes to come, and a chance to practice skills from past classes under the teacher's supervision and feedback. It's also your opportunity to ask questions or request specific topics for future classes.
This month's Pride-themed knowledge teaser: creating chemistry regardless of gender. Masculine and feminine energy exist in all of us, and when you learn to play with and within the full range of the spectrum, you find the true spark of connection. Come find out how to use it.
The social is followed by HoS' pansexual play party Countdown. To attend Countdown, please see site for rules and instructions (access to Kurious is included with Countdown).
Goddess Viktoria Sway is a NYC Dominatrix and kink educator with 15 years in the community and 10 years of professional practice and direct instruction. An expert in the psychology of kink, she teaches the mechanics of erotic D/s dynamics.
House of Scorpio is a femme- and queer-forward, poly- & kink-friendly, sex-positive membership-based community creating safe space for people of all genders and sexual orientations.
*HoS rules: HoS membership, dress code, PAL, prior approval not required; Code of Conduct always applies; no photos except in the designated front area.
For those of you staying to play at Countdown, feel free to dress casual for the mixer and change by 10:30pm, as per Countdown rules -- or be your full cute self the whole time. All non-playing guests must exit by 10:30pm.
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SAT 6.27: PLAY PARTY
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House of Scorpio
presents
Countdown: pansexual play party
Sat June 28, 10pm-3am (doors close at 11:45pm), 21+ (25+ suggested), HoS members only
(7-10:30pm: New! Kurious kink munch and skillshare, listed separately - included w Countdown)
$0-50 depending on membership level / $35 earlybird for Friend+ members before 6.13
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)
Official info & house rules: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/events.html
Approval & membership required for ticket purchase*: http://houseofscorpio.com/attend.html
FB: https://www.facebook.com/events/1456356649596770 (visible to HoS group)
FL: https://fetlife.com/events/2026/06/27/countdown-pansexual-play-party-oamp09
PL: https://plra.io/m/countdown-pansexual-play-party-279
IG: @houseof_scorpio [producer] @gemini_scorpio [venue] #houseofscorpio
Part social party, part makeout party, part play party. The countdown begins when doors open at 10pm: it's a mix-and-mingle party for the first hour. At 11, all regular makeout party rules apply: all the clothes stay on, and all playtime is PG13-rated. But at 12am, the door is locked, and the party can take its natural course. Please arrive by 11:45pm, though you can leave anytime.
Dress to be kissed: sexy and fun. Fetish attire, formalwear, lingerie, corsets, tutus and costumes always welcome...and we consider those unisex options (the more colorful and outrageous, the better). No casual or business; door person WILL turn you away -- see Code of Conduct page on our site for more details on the dress code.
This month's Countdown includes access to the Kurious social beforehand. Come early to get in the mood, and practice with your toys before you use them fully at the play party.
Respiratory safety: HoS requires proof of COVID vaccination on file; masks encouraged; two hospital grade UV air purifiers will cycle the air.
*HoS rules: HoS membership, PAL & Dress Code required; approval required; Code of Conduct always applies; no photos except in the designated front area.
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DATE CHANGE! THUR 7.2: MIXER & HoS INTRO
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House of Scorpio
presents
Taste The Rainbow: sex-positive poly/kinky/LGBTQ+ & allies mixer
Thur July 2, 7pm-12am, 21+ (25+ suggested); open to all
(Those of you coming from work: yes you can get food delivered here!)
Members: $0 / non-members: $10 + $2 fee (membership starts at $5)
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)
Official info & house rules: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/events.html
Memberships & tix: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/membership.html (log in for discounts)
FB: https://www.facebook.com/events/1484719283394025
FL: https://bit.ly/4v0B0et
PL: https://plra.io/m/taste-the-rainbow-sex-positive-polykinkylgbtq-69
Socials: @houseof_scorpio [producer] @gemini_scorpio [venue] #houseofscorpio
People always ask if can join HoS if they are shy, don't have like-minded friends, lack PALs for play parties, have no idea how this whole thing works, don't feel like jumping into sexy activity but want to connect to open-minded humans, etc etc. This party is the answer!
Calling all LGBTQIA+, poly, kink, ENM and other "alternative" dating/sex/gender-aligned humans and their allies. We're creating a protected and judgment-free space for connections, conversations, community, games and interactivity. This is the place to start if you've never been -- and the party is always FREE if you're already a member.
For those of you new to it all: a place to be comfortable in your gender, orientation or relationship identity, direct introductions to HoS members new and old; open discussions on varied lifestyles; icebreaker games to welcome you to our club.
For our regulars: a way to ease new friends into our scene; a chance to meet all the new faces you may want to kiss later; a visit with the community even if your PAL is not around.
For everyone: PG-13 tabletop and social games, a charming host to make the introductions and explain all things HoS and sex-positive, and a cozy setting for conversations and future kisses. Be on time! Our icebreaker game, HoS Guest Bingo, runs from 7:30pm until we have a winner: get to know everyone in the room, and win a drink if you're the first to complete your bingo card.
Current host: Miss Scorpio is back hosting the mixer. Come ask her directly anything you want to know about HoS. We've been building this community for you for 10+ years, and hope to be here for 10+ more.
HoS rules: HoS membership, PAL and dress code not required; no prior approval required; Code of Conduct always applies; no photos except in the designated front area.
Respiratory safety: masks welcome; two hospital grade UV air purifiers will cycle the air.
*Taste The Rainbow happens every first Friday of the month if our Loft is available; otherwise it moves to first Thursdays.
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FRI 7.10: MAKEOUT PARTY
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House of Scorpio
presents
Lip Service: pansexual makeout party
Fri July 10*, 9pm-2am, 21+ (25+ suggested), HoS members only**
$0-25 depending on membership level
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)
Official info & house rules: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/events.html
Memberships & tix: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/membership.html (log in to buy)
FB: https://www.facebook.com/events/1696474851256246
FL: https://bit.ly/4eABBN0
PL: https://plra.io/m/lip-service-pansexual-kissing-and-cocktails-party-525
Socials: @houseof_scorpio [producer] @gemini_scorpio [venue] #houseofscorpio
Bring your luscious lips (yours and your PAL's), and join us for lubricating libations and naughty games with sexy friends and intriguing strangers. Bring toys & games to share (blindfolds? rope? sexy dice?).
Feeling shy or wanting to meet new folks? Come early! Meet our founder, Miss Scorpio. Between 9-10:30pm, Miss S is there to introduce new members to old timers, explain how the whole HoS thing works, and generally make a delightful fuss over your presence.
Think of our makeout parties as R-rated community mixers -- a place to get to know your fellow kinksters, introduce a partner to a more playful lifestyle, test out the sparks you may have had with someone at Taste The Rainbow -- before attending the more naughty play parties. It's also a way for us to vet you in person for those parties...talk to us at the event.
Dress to be kissed: sexy and fun. Fetish attire, formalwear, lingerie, corsets, tutus and costumes always welcome...and we consider those unisex options (the more colorful and outrageous, the better). No casual or business; door person WILL turn you away -- see Code of Conduct page on our site for more details on the dress code.
*Lip Service happens on the second Friday of every month
**HoS rules: HoS membership, PAL & Dress Code required; no prior approval required; Code of Conduct always applies; no photos except in the designated front area.
Respiratory safety: masks welcome; two hospital grade UV air purifiers will cycle the air.
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FRI 7.17: FLIRTING PARTY
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House of Scorpio
presents
Two flirting parties in one: FemFlirt + MeetMarket
Fri July 17, 9pm-1am (intros & social games 9-10pm), 21+ (25+ suggested)
For existing & prospective HoS members*; members: $0-10 / non-members: $10 + $2 fee
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, 267 Douglass St, 3rd fl (ADA accessible)
Official info & house rules: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/events.html
Memberships & tix: http://www.houseofscorpio.com/membership.html (log in to buy)
IG: @houseof_scorpio [producer] @gemini_scorpio [venue] #houseofscorpio
FB: https://www.facebook.com/events/1011093307945986
FL: https://bit.ly/4a3Xh2z
PL: https://plra.io/m/two-flirting-parties-femflirt-meetmarket-all
If you're looking to meet potential dates, partners and play PALs, finally: two flirting parties in one. We'll divide our 5k sq ft loft in two & run these side-by-side.
On the dance floor & stage - FemFlirt: fem & non-binary flirting & makeout party. In the lounge - MeetMarket: pansexual flirting party. In the bar - a neutral zone for everyone to take a break from flirting. Our community leans pan and poly/ENM, but we welcome everyone into our sx-pos consent-forward dating pool.
Social games 9-10pm to help you connect; tabletop games and conversation starters all night to make flirting less awkward; name tags w color coded stars to make flirting parameters clear.
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For femmes & NB folks: FemFlirt
This event is a small step towards diminishing pan, queer and gay femme/NB invisibility, enabling and encouraging those folks to connect romantically and physically...wherever they fall on the gender presentation spectrum. We invite you into our safe space -- one where you know for sure every person present could be more than a friend. Not quite sure where to start? Our beloved Spin The Bottle game makes a great excuse to make contact you can then follow up on.
Who can attend: self-identifying women and GNC/NB humans who want to connect with other women and GNC/NB humans. No masc folks on this side of the room, please.
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For everyone: MeetMarket
We put our "no cruising" rule on hold and encourage all guests to shamelessly hit on each other. An all-gender, all-orientation flirting party to help you find a partner (or two). Our PAL rule is on hold as well: come alone or bring someone. Wondering where to meet up with your new app match? Bring them here. Invite your single friends. Tell your mom.
Who can attend: humans of all genders who might want to flirt with and go on dates with other humans of any genders. All fem/NB guests can also participate on this side of the room.
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Dress code: dress in whatever makes you feel sexy. We won't enforce the dress code as strictly as at Lip Service, but we respectfully ask for cute/sexy attire. You're coming to flirt!
*HoS rules: HoS membership, PAL or prior approval not required; sexy dress code encouraged, but you won't be turned away if not dressed to code; Code of Conduct always applies; no photos except in the designated front area.
COVID safety: HoS requires proof of vaccination on file; masks encouraged; two hospital grade UV air purifiers will cycle the air.
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